Torn between two women, who should I chose.?

I really don't think it's fair for this two ladies if you date them both. Plus it is pretty gross if you are being intimate with both of them. Put your self in their shoes would you like for one of them to be dating you while dating someone else? By the way you are describing the relationship you have with each of this ladies. I think you would be better with the lady you met at your high school reunion. You seem to have a lot in comment with her.