How can we find true love if we dont express our deepest needs?

i asked a question. i said i was in love with paris hilton and pj harvey. some answers were silly. some were instructive. it is not unrealistic to fantasize. pj harvey expresses herself. i saw the interview. they asked her why does she sing about so much. she just said well she wants her songs to come from important inspirations. i dont see why we cant be in love with celebrities. we are all celebrities. it is just how do we treat each other. i want someone who treats me like a celebriy and i treat her like a celebrity. what is a celebrity? a star. why would anyone want to be less than a star? and if we can find true love we have to express our deepest selves. why is van gogh's starry night so valued. the feelings are so deep. how else could we be real??????